M i being ignored....

Im 29...he's 33.. I met this guy online and we have been talking to on the phone everynight for 1 month. It was agreed between us that we wanted to see whether there was any connection before arranging a meetup. We have fixed a date in April for an outing...our daily interactions involve texting and the daily call / calls. He seemed like such a sweet guy, once called me in early morning after he came home after clubbing bc he was concerned that I might be imagining things bc I did not reply to his text the night before he went out. I felt quite touched by that gesture..im currently separated from my husband and had only started dating not that long ago...insecurity is an issue for me as my husband is a cheater and likes to play mind games w me. So when he made the effort to call...i felt that he was really quite sweet. 1st incident: Last Sun during our nightly call, he mentioned that he felt pressure from me...that we must talk everynight and things seem to be moving too fast...he shared things that he would normally only do with his girlfriends..i thought that was unfair bc I would be understanding enough if he tells me that he needs to work...i admit i did tease him via sms that day saying: i wana talk to u tonight...dun care :P time and again he had reassured me that he wanted to talk to me too and that he really liked me...asking me not to worry abt such silly things.. 2nd incident: On Tue...he called me to let me know that he was v sick...he did sound v sick...so since then...we still interact daily...but mainly via one or two sms per day...in the texts he still tell me he miss me too etc...this continues till sun when I felt that I seem to be bugging him and thus i didnt text him at all...nothing from him...during the week that he respond...he would apologise that he felt bad that he is too sick or tired to talk to me.. This mon, i dropped him a text to say hi...static....yesterday morning i texted him again...and he only replied w a "I just woke up" at 7.19pm...so i said: wow, so u must have energy to talk to me tonight ;P....once again static.....I realised he posted something on his facebook on Mon morning....if he can post on facebook...whats a simple sms or call? Thats what he has been doing all along..no? Anyway...im starting to get a little annoyed and hurt....so i texted him a final message today: I realised things seem a little quiet between us, is there something i should know? feeling a little hurt that u seem to be avoiding or ignoring me. Ill leave u alone to ur own space. I still like you and hope ur feeling all right. Bottomline: I really like this guy....BUT i do not like having to feel that Im chasing him...my friend said it is quite obvious something is bothering him...not sure what I can do...but for now..im not gonna text him anymore.... Both of us removed our online dating profile bc we agreed that we wanted to concentrate on getting to know each other better (actually he took his down ist)...jus feeling confused on what happened..perhaps i was too affectionate and scare him off? haiz... I guess I already knew Im being ignored...jus not sure what else can I do...

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