Dealing with issues/in-laws

Ours was a love marriage and we are married for close to 4 months now. Though we had lived together before marriage when his parents were away we don't seem to have the same relationship now. 1. He is too much concerned about his mother and father at times it goes to an extent that even when we are having our personal time/sex at night he talks about his parents suddenly like "dad has cold for the last two days will he be okay, he looks tired". I dont know if this is how husbands/guys are after marriage? 2. And he cares a lot about his parents that even for a smaller thing to be bought for me or to go out for a beach he thinks so much, gets their permission.In case his mother doesnt reply with a happy note we never go out if I insist on. 3. Most of the things that I talk with him like my interest about how our kids should be is never kept as a personal matter. He discusses everything with his mother and his mother always talks to him about me (good/bad),any thing that she needs when I am away. 4. Even for cooking something of my interest or trying out my hand, I am in a position to consult with his dad, mom and then do it. If his dad doesn't like the food is not prepared at home at all. 5. Anything to be bought only his dad should go out to buy, though we are the only two earning members at home we are only in a position to give him a list and he will only buy. I sometimes feel even my husband should go out learn to buy things and know the cost of living. He is just equivalent to an illiterate in these matters.He doesnt have any responsibility other than transfering money to his dad as soon as he gets the salary. I feel so bad that I am frustrated but I refrained from showing these because we end up fighting/arguing and I end up crying and I have started to burry all my problems or likings or interest. This way I feel I dont love him anymore or I dont know what is there to get attracted towards him. but I am scared problems would come and I dont want that to hurt my parents bcos they never wanted me to do a love marriage initially though they are very happy about the marriage now. But this way I only feel acting to my husband and his parents but I dont feel free,given a chance i think I might go away and be happy. But I still feel 4 months is too early to think about a break up. At this point in time I need some let out and suggestions to deal within myself. Please help.

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