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Boyfriend cares more about fifa than sex.

Just feel a bit annoyed really...

Summary: my boyfriend and I had sex in the night before we went to sleep and he didn't make me orgasm, in the morning I wanted to have sex so started with foreplay of just oral, but instead of him having sex with me after (full-well knowing I wanted to) just carried on until he came - so we couldn't have sex for another hour.
Finally that hour passed and it just felt like it was a massive chore for him, so obviously I was just a bit non-responsive because he was hardly making any effort. Basically the sex recently has be absolutely lame.
Anyway, he got all moody that I was being unresponsive and I tried to explain to him that I just felt like he seemed to be doing it because he felt he had to... Anyway he didn't try and carry on, just rolled over, started being rude about how difficult I am in bed and then just walked off. Like... great. Then came back a bit later and was like 'sorry' but we still didn't have sex.

Anyway, I tried to talk to him about it today, try and give hints as to how he could improve (because he's so freakin' tetchy if I tell him he's doing something that hurts or if I'm sore - if I do he just gets moody, rolls over and that's the end of sex for that night) so I try and phrase it in a way where it's trying to explain what I would prefer.
Instead of actually taking the hint he just gave really non-responsive replies and told me he was too busy playing fifa. Which obviously pissed me off.

Our sex life is **** because he'd rather focus on fifa and get annoyed at me when I don't orgasm than address his (occasional) poor delivery on the sex front.

And now it just puts me off sex, because all I can think about is how I won't enjoy it next time because he'll just do the same things I don't enjoy.
I don't want sex tips, I just want to shout at him.
Probs not wise so maybe you guys can give me some better advice.




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