What makes a man do these?

Okay I wrote a long post then deleted it after re-reading. I just want to understand what could possibly drive my husband do the following so as to understand how my own actions could be a contributing factor.

• Stop complimenting wife?
• Does not ever notice when the wife is wearing a new dress, shoes, new hair style etc etc
• Constantly check other women in public
• Use porn in secret even though wife doesn't mind you watching it
• Refused to talk about relationship or work on it (after screwing it with lies) but wants wife to be happy
• Knows wife is not emotionally fulfilled but ignores.
• Does not care when other men checks out wife in public
• Does not react when wife shares that some male friend sends compliments on FB
• Doesnt stand up for wife when need to
• Does not like to talk about his friends, colleagues or family

Other than these he is a fun, hard working and patient H and our sex life is fine

Please share your thoughts and ask me questions if necessary. Struggling to understand him and not sure what is the best way.

Thanks in advance.

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