One of my major problems when it comes to socialising is my lack of ability to 'smalltalk'. Now, I'm not socially anxious or anything; I can talk and behave normally when in public. But when it comes to having conversations, I end up being 'excluded' from the conversation eventually, since I have nothing useful to contribute. This effect strengthens when talking to girls, however only the ones who are less 'open', i.e. they don't bother keeping a conversation alive.
When talking individually with someone I may not know very well, we just kinda split up after a few minutes. Is this problem a part of one's personality or some sort of mental disorder? I feel that I may have a few symptoms associated with narcissism as I always feel that people shall appreciate my presence no matter what. Anyone who just kinda forgets about me I generate a negative attitude towards them.
Any ideas?
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