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My husband treats me like a child!

I am newly married (married in August 2014) and I adore my husband - we typically have an awesome relationship unless I say something that he feels is a "dig" at him. For Example - this past weekend I made the comment - "I guess you're too tired to make love to me again tonight" (please keep in mind we are intimate almost nightly). The night before he feel asleep early so we did not make love. He was tired early again the next night and I made the comment to him which infuriated him. He became very, very harsh towards me by raising his voice and making it very clear that he did not appreciate me making that statement and felt I was flipping him I the forehead. I apologized multiple times and told him how sorry I was that I made him feel this way...here's where I need advice...he would not make love to me after this incident as he said he no longer felt "close" to me??? I am struggling....I did not say anything on purpose to hurt his feelings or make a dig at him. why would I? He spent the next 2 hours making sure I knew how terrible I made him feel and that he was "shocked and amazed" I would say something like this to him?? I sat looking at him in shock and couldn't believe the HUGE deal he was making over my slip of words. He told me your words and actions always have "consequences". Am I a child??? Does my husband need to give me consequences if I make a mistake?

I love my husband dearly and it is heart breaking when he treats me like this...what should I do??

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