I was talking to my friend (girl) and I asked where what she is up to? She came on whatsapp, read the message but didn't reply. Then, I messaged again with a ? mark.
She came back on whatsapp again but still didn't reply.
Then I got angry. And I messaged again saying "why do you keep going on whatsapp but not replying?"
And then she replied. She wrote:
"I can come on whatsapp. I can do whatever I want"
And then she said "when someone doesn't reply, you need to wait"
I accepted my mistake and said my bad and then changed the topic.
I'm at fault I know.
Usually when we talk, it's pretty much instant replies.
Maybe I am a bit insistent but I don't like when she does that. It feels like she is ignoring me and I guess I get a bit paranoid or something :/ I don't mean to in a bad way.
Anyway next time I won't "insist" again.
What are your thoughts on this?
I am NEVER like this with other people. I just send my message and they can reply whenever they wish. It's no issue.
It's only with this girl where I get agitated/angry/annoyed when she comes on whatsapp constantly but doesn't reply straight away.
How do I STOP this? And how do I not get upset about it and just act normal?
Has anyone ever had this problem?
Please advise..
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