I posted here last week and now would like advice on the recent events. To sum up my story I found out that my H was having (what I think is) an EA. I found some text messages the OW sent him. He is a truck driver and she works as a dispatch. He should have no more than a 1-2 min conversation each week. The calls got longer then they began texting.....It has now turned into much more. As far as I know, they have never met face to face.
He admitted to having the burner phone, which he couldnt deny anyway. After he got caught, He said he threw out the phone and will never have anymore to do with her. He says she meant nothing and he doesnt even know why he did it. He has apologized and asked my forgiveness and seemed sincere in his apology. He says he doesnt want to lose me and will do what it takes to work things out.
I have a keylogger on his computer and while I was away yesterday, he was looking thru her facebook pictures (over 400 pictures). If he means what he says and has no interest in her, why is he looking thru her pictures? There were no emails or messages, he only looked thru the pictures. should I confront him with this or wait to see if it goes further??
It is hard to be with him knowing she is on his mind. Maybe he is waiting for this to "die down", then he will continue to pursue her (if he even stopped). How do I handle this?
He admitted to having the burner phone, which he couldnt deny anyway. After he got caught, He said he threw out the phone and will never have anymore to do with her. He says she meant nothing and he doesnt even know why he did it. He has apologized and asked my forgiveness and seemed sincere in his apology. He says he doesnt want to lose me and will do what it takes to work things out.
I have a keylogger on his computer and while I was away yesterday, he was looking thru her facebook pictures (over 400 pictures). If he means what he says and has no interest in her, why is he looking thru her pictures? There were no emails or messages, he only looked thru the pictures. should I confront him with this or wait to see if it goes further??
It is hard to be with him knowing she is on his mind. Maybe he is waiting for this to "die down", then he will continue to pursue her (if he even stopped). How do I handle this?
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