Back story: Hubby and I have been married for 8 years and have two kids. We are high school sweethearts and I have always been 100% faithful to him. He has never physically cheated but I know that he has emotionally cheated once with an ex girlfriend when we were having some issues after about 2 years of marriage which I found out about because I did some research and he finally confessed after I presented all of the evidence.
Last night I met this guy online through another social media site who works in the area and I have never met him but I have heard of him from friends. He asked to Facebook message me and I said yes. Before I knew it the conversation had gone from work related to him talking about how sexy I was in my photos and how he would love to meet up. I told him I was married and he said that he was married too. He told me that he loved his wife but she didn't show him any affection and that he had needs as a man. I told him I had the same issue with my husband who comes home from work and falls asleep on the couch and that the only time he shows me affection is when he is drunk and/or wants sex. He ended telling me the things he wanted to do to me but I just keep saying things like ok, that sounds good... Stuff like that... He sent me pictures of him at work and also nude pictures. He asked for pictures of me so I sent 2 pictures to him but none of them were nude or even close to it! He kept telling me how sexy I was and how much he wanted to meet up and I will be honest it was so nice to hear someone actually showing some type of interest in me! He ended up asking me to meet him at a hotel later this week and I told him that as nice as it was to be wanted by someone else I just couldn't do it. Even though I didn't get too much into the sexual side of the conversation I am now having a huge guilt trip because I have never ever done anything like this before and I could never hurt my husband like this even though he as emotionally cheated.
Would you married men want your wife to confess something like this or would you rather not know?
Last night I met this guy online through another social media site who works in the area and I have never met him but I have heard of him from friends. He asked to Facebook message me and I said yes. Before I knew it the conversation had gone from work related to him talking about how sexy I was in my photos and how he would love to meet up. I told him I was married and he said that he was married too. He told me that he loved his wife but she didn't show him any affection and that he had needs as a man. I told him I had the same issue with my husband who comes home from work and falls asleep on the couch and that the only time he shows me affection is when he is drunk and/or wants sex. He ended telling me the things he wanted to do to me but I just keep saying things like ok, that sounds good... Stuff like that... He sent me pictures of him at work and also nude pictures. He asked for pictures of me so I sent 2 pictures to him but none of them were nude or even close to it! He kept telling me how sexy I was and how much he wanted to meet up and I will be honest it was so nice to hear someone actually showing some type of interest in me! He ended up asking me to meet him at a hotel later this week and I told him that as nice as it was to be wanted by someone else I just couldn't do it. Even though I didn't get too much into the sexual side of the conversation I am now having a huge guilt trip because I have never ever done anything like this before and I could never hurt my husband like this even though he as emotionally cheated.
Would you married men want your wife to confess something like this or would you rather not know?
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