I am in such a situation, but I have made sooooooo much progress the last month or so. I needed to find out (BADLY) why I was still hanging on when it seems that most men would have bailed and never looked back. What was it in my personal psychology and background that was making it so freaking hard to detach?
If you are the same way, and feel that detaching is the last resort (it so often is, even if wanting to reconcile), and you find you're driving yourself insane wondering why you're so attached to something that is eating you alive........some reading.
Trauma Bonds: by Patrick Carnes (free pdf download - google it). This is mind-blowing for those who've long wondered WTF is wrong with them.
Codependent No More: book
Like so many advise on this site, you need to understand yourSELF before anything else can even be budged.
If you are the same way, and feel that detaching is the last resort (it so often is, even if wanting to reconcile), and you find you're driving yourself insane wondering why you're so attached to something that is eating you alive........some reading.
Trauma Bonds: by Patrick Carnes (free pdf download - google it). This is mind-blowing for those who've long wondered WTF is wrong with them.
Codependent No More: book
Like so many advise on this site, you need to understand yourSELF before anything else can even be budged.
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