Basically, i'm long distance with my boyfriend of 18 months. I really love what we have, even though it is hard and hate the thought of losing him. I know for certain it would break his heart as well as my own if we were ever to end things- ultimately, I really want to be with him. He is very special to me and when we're together i'm happy
However, i'm becoming very drawn to a guy on my course who I see almost every day. We have so much in common (more than my boyfriend and I have in common, though I know having loads in common doesn't necessarily mean you're meant for each other) He has become a good friend of mine because we have mutual friends and sit together a lot in lectures and so on.
Sometimes it feels like he would be a better match for me than my current boyfriend is, I really feel like we are compatible and the chemistry between us is strong. Don't get me wrong- I have not and will never cheat, I would not even consider it as I respect my current boyfriend far too much for that.
My boyfriend is a truly amazing guy and I feel lucky to have him, I know I am lucky to have a relationship like ours as well. Feel truly awful for feeling this way about another guy but cannot help how I feel. Is this 'grass is always greener syndrome', or are my feelings telling me something?
Additionally, current relationship is my first ever relationship + we've been long distance for the entire duration of our relationship. If that holds any significance
However, i'm becoming very drawn to a guy on my course who I see almost every day. We have so much in common (more than my boyfriend and I have in common, though I know having loads in common doesn't necessarily mean you're meant for each other) He has become a good friend of mine because we have mutual friends and sit together a lot in lectures and so on.
Sometimes it feels like he would be a better match for me than my current boyfriend is, I really feel like we are compatible and the chemistry between us is strong. Don't get me wrong- I have not and will never cheat, I would not even consider it as I respect my current boyfriend far too much for that.
My boyfriend is a truly amazing guy and I feel lucky to have him, I know I am lucky to have a relationship like ours as well. Feel truly awful for feeling this way about another guy but cannot help how I feel. Is this 'grass is always greener syndrome', or are my feelings telling me something?
Additionally, current relationship is my first ever relationship + we've been long distance for the entire duration of our relationship. If that holds any significance
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