Happily married couple with Children and no Medical problems and are in good Health.
My wife used to be HD as i am now and always was.
Over the past few years she became LD and i expected that things would go this way but not to the Lowest Point of 0.1
She has never taken a Medical contraceptive.
She is not a devout Christian or other Faith.
Ive discussed another topic here before
Wife wanted Dildo"Enjoyed it but Now wont Play
But that is not the topic i wish to discuss here.
Its the topic of Duty Sex or rather that's what it feels like to me.
Ive asked my Wife many questions trying to get to an underlining problem but its always answered with or..
1 A shrug of the shoulders
2 Im just not interested
3 Im tired right now
4 ive a Headache
5 Intimacy avoidance or distancing
6 Sudden Topic change away from this topic.
7 Staying up late to use Lateness it as an excuse.
The only time my wife has shown great sex interest is when we were trying for pregnancy or when we used a toy in the past(Not any more)
Ive said to my wife before that we dont need to have marathon sex as thats just not realistic.
I need a Wife a Lover a Partner NOT a room mate to share a bed with.
Im thinking of distancing myself from her to see if she notices anything.
As for distancing away from sex i dont think she would even notice a difference.
Im home a lot from work so im always around for the kids and tidying up and i get with the kids every day 7 days a week and out to school just so she has extra sleep.
I prepare lots of meals and tidy up after everyone too and clothes washed and up on lines ETC so its not like i dont do my share to keep the household going well.
My Wife doesn't work and will spend most if not all day in Pjs i said this to her is mentally not good for waking up as your body still thinks its in sleep mode.
Anyway im ranting at this point.
My wife used to be HD as i am now and always was.
Over the past few years she became LD and i expected that things would go this way but not to the Lowest Point of 0.1
She has never taken a Medical contraceptive.
She is not a devout Christian or other Faith.
Ive discussed another topic here before
Wife wanted Dildo"Enjoyed it but Now wont Play
But that is not the topic i wish to discuss here.
Its the topic of Duty Sex or rather that's what it feels like to me.
Ive asked my Wife many questions trying to get to an underlining problem but its always answered with or..
1 A shrug of the shoulders
2 Im just not interested
3 Im tired right now
4 ive a Headache
5 Intimacy avoidance or distancing
6 Sudden Topic change away from this topic.
7 Staying up late to use Lateness it as an excuse.
The only time my wife has shown great sex interest is when we were trying for pregnancy or when we used a toy in the past(Not any more)
Ive said to my wife before that we dont need to have marathon sex as thats just not realistic.
I need a Wife a Lover a Partner NOT a room mate to share a bed with.
Im thinking of distancing myself from her to see if she notices anything.
As for distancing away from sex i dont think she would even notice a difference.
Im home a lot from work so im always around for the kids and tidying up and i get with the kids every day 7 days a week and out to school just so she has extra sleep.
I prepare lots of meals and tidy up after everyone too and clothes washed and up on lines ETC so its not like i dont do my share to keep the household going well.
My Wife doesn't work and will spend most if not all day in Pjs i said this to her is mentally not good for waking up as your body still thinks its in sleep mode.
Anyway im ranting at this point.
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