srs there are so many forever aloner's in here, and i used to be socially awkward (unable to talk to any girls, friendzoned all the time etc), so i thought i'd share some tips on things that helped me improve as a person and socially.
i'm in no way saying i'm a social butterfly, but i'm getting quite sick of these "27 and still a virgin", "no-one likes me" threads
follow these steps and your chances should improve
1) practice confidence
- put yourself out of your comfort zone by approaching girls (even if you get rejected straight away)
- do crazy things in public, push yourself each day, like doing press ups in the middle of town etc
- practice flirting with ugly girls (i know i'll get a lot of hate on here for saying that, but it helps)
2) improve physical appearance
- buy a teeth whitening kit from ebay for a few quid
- hit the tanning salon / gym
- ask your barber / hair stylist what haircut suits you, and get that style
- invest in a good aftershave (paco rabanne - one million works wonders for me, get loads of compliments in it
3) buy GOOD clothes
invest in
- a few branded t-shirts, polos
- good fitting jeans
- oxford shirts
- a nice watch
- suede desert boots / some other nice shoes
4) get a hobby
- have something interesting to talk about other than your grades / university choices PLEASE
- take up some strange sport like octopush or something if you want something to easily talk about, or take up a hobby like lifesaving if you want to simultaneously impress girls and improve your CV at the same time
i'm in no way saying i'm a social butterfly, but i'm getting quite sick of these "27 and still a virgin", "no-one likes me" threads
follow these steps and your chances should improve
1) practice confidence
- put yourself out of your comfort zone by approaching girls (even if you get rejected straight away)
- do crazy things in public, push yourself each day, like doing press ups in the middle of town etc
- practice flirting with ugly girls (i know i'll get a lot of hate on here for saying that, but it helps)
2) improve physical appearance
- buy a teeth whitening kit from ebay for a few quid
- hit the tanning salon / gym
- ask your barber / hair stylist what haircut suits you, and get that style
- invest in a good aftershave (paco rabanne - one million works wonders for me, get loads of compliments in it
3) buy GOOD clothes
invest in
- a few branded t-shirts, polos
- good fitting jeans
- oxford shirts
- a nice watch
- suede desert boots / some other nice shoes
4) get a hobby
- have something interesting to talk about other than your grades / university choices PLEASE
- take up some strange sport like octopush or something if you want something to easily talk about, or take up a hobby like lifesaving if you want to simultaneously impress girls and improve your CV at the same time
Put the internet to work for you.
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