May Not Make it to 25 Year Anniversary

I am new here, I hope this will help me a little. I really could use some support. We have been married 25 years this coming November 2013. We may not make it. I caught my hubby having cybersex with an old high school sweetheart. Then he informs me the reason why he pursued this is because he is no longer interested in my body and has not for a very long time. I always tried to initiate sex but he is the one who always made an excuse. Now it gets worse. I am a 16 year breast cancer survivor and he has the nerve to tell me my body turns him off. I have had two operations for reconstruction. I cannot make it look 100% anymore. It is what it is. In a bra you would never know. I am not overweight, I do not look my age and I am in good health otherwise. I think all this is an excuse for him to move on, but it has hurt me something awful. I cannot hate him though because he has always been there for me before. He tells me I have not done anything wrong and we were always best friends. I am lost. I have seen a counselor twice and he is going to go tomorrow for the first time. I think 25 years is enough to want to give this a shot at working, but I really do not know how to live this out day by day. Any help out there??

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