I'm really worried about desiring a new GF !

Hey guys. l am , now l know this is ridiculous because who knows what's gonna happen but if my x and l don't R , one day there'll be someone new. l really , really worry about being able to desire her . See , l do have a v/high sex drive, always have. But my x was not only 9 or so yrs younger than me but she looked and was in her ways 9 yrs younger than her age as well and even she began saying l needed someone younger than her lately near end. She'd said dozens of times because l was still just too active , playful , energetic and pretty damn good for my age . She'd said even she was always worrying about being able to keep up with me lately because she was starting to feel older and like slowing down a bit. Yet although she was 39 when we split and although she'd put on a bit of weight , she was just in a different league to anyone else l've known or see of that age and she's what l like and l'm use to . The younger chicks to still seem to be the majority of anyone interested in me and even now looks can be from 20ish even younger and up to into the 30's if l'm lucky and that's about what l tend to notice too . My x had the same problem as she called it . lt was always younger guys that took to her and they really did too . She use to laugh at mine and l use to laugh at hers . But in actual fact , a new gf will probably be older than my x and won't have her looks and youthfulness either , as a person or in looks and body . Yet they all unrealistically seem to expect sky fall in sex by the sounds of it and for it to last until your both 125 yrs old to boot, no matter what they look like , weight , the works . But hey they aren't 20 anymore and once the honeymoons over , where's the desire and drive meant to come from ? l have seen one or two if l'm lucky that l could imagine desiring for a long time to come but l wouldn't be expecting some wild passionate thing. l've never really had anyone in their 40's - can't count my x because she was more like late 20's and most couples being married all that time would be well and truly cruising by that age l'd imagine. Mind you , this is just me l'm talking about and l do realize plenty of guys in their 40s and 50's llove womem in that age . See my x and me well , we had some great stuff , crazy stuff right through, before our marriage started going sth from stress and worries anyway. And she was still well and truly in the chick bracket with years of it left and that's what l'm use to , like ! Well it's like women now , of this age , still expect that but l just don't see how it's possible , from my point of view anyway. Maybe , well this is an example of one l met a few wks ago , in a supermarket line no less. Now her , l could spend a whole lot a years between her legs but that was an exception and what are the odds of hooking up with the personalty and that as well. Million to one l'd reckon. l don't wanna hook up with somebody too much younger because l don't think it's practical long term . There's another girl l met , we get along sooo well and hot , but she's only 25 and l mean , l ain't even going there because long term , that's just not gonna work. So l really worry now about actually even meeting let alone hooking up with someone that l'll desire enough long term.

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