An excuse I've never heard before from a cheater...

If you are unfamiliar with my story, I posted a link here http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...-marriage.html Anyway, things are going good for me. Still a lot of adjusting, but given what I went through the six months of the affair (which is still going on, they're living together now), I have coped quite nicely. So I received a phone call from her this week, and normally its about the children, but she got to talking about us. And as the conversation went on, she threw something out there that I had never heard before. She was talking about how she wished I had been more forceful on her about ending the affair. I was blown away! So you mean to tell me that confronting the guy at a bar and provoking him into a fight was not forceful? She said she also wished that I had blocked his number from calling her and vice versa. Yeah did that too a couple months ago, then she went out and got both her and him new phones. It must suck for that guy to know that the only reason she's with him is because I finally stepped up and refused to be a doormat and take her back. This is more than a vent than anything. I just thought you all would like to hear it.

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