Pages

Search blog and web

What Happened?!

Wife came home, approached me while I was sitting at my desk and told me to come with her to the kitchen to sign divorce papers. I swear that they were as thick as a phonebook. I was honestly surprised by all of this. I've told her that I wasn't going to sign anything.

It all started about a few weeks ago when I discussed with her about my daughter (from a previous marriage) coming into town and visiting and introducing her baby to the family. She was going to stay for a total of four days, but ended up staying for a week. I had made my wife aware of the schedule change and that is when everything went south.

She said that she wanted for my daughter to stick to her original plan of only four days. When I told her that wasn't possible, she said, well then, she needs to go somewhere else. I had stated that I was not going to put my daughter and granddaughter on the streets. I didn't see what the big deal was for them to stay at the house. She persisted and refused to compromise.

I had said, where my daughter and granddaughter go, I will go. She said, "That's fine with me!". My wife packed her things and left the home for three days when my daughter arrived. Before the four days was up, I had made other arrangements and my daughter and I went to visit with other friends and family for a few days.

While I was away, my wife's anger grew and went out to file for a divorce. When I came home a day later, that is when she presented me with the papers.

She had mentioned that I had lied to her and that I had perviously known about my daughter's extended stay. I had told her that I was not aware of it until the last minute, but she was also privy to that information when she saw the travel itinerary. I was upfront and honest during all of this and didn't think that it would lead to something so crazy and insane.

Wife told me to sign the divorce papers and I told her that I am not signing anything. She got mad and called 9-1-1. The cops arrived and she told them that she wanted me out of the house. The cops told her that I didn't have to go and that we should probably seek out some type of counseling. This made her even more upset. She pulled out her phone, called the service provider and had my cell phone service stopped. She is the primary on the account.

She says that she loves me and is in love with me, but doesn't trust me. For that, she wants a divorce and the sooner the better.

I love my wife and after only a year and a half of marriage, I am torn apart by all of this. She won't talk to me and she is getting a lot of guidance from her "friends". Funny, they all told me how wonderful I was with her and how blessed she was to have me. Now it is, "off with his head!"

My wife has an issue with my daughter because she went out, had sex, and got pregnant. My daughter went to live with her mother in another state because it was just a better situation at that time for her to be focused and to have a healthy and happy baby.

My wife won't even let me see the divorce papers to read them over unless I am signing them. Well, I am not signing anything. I would really like to work this out, but she has become unmovable. I am in a depression and falling fast.

How did I get to this point?!




ifttt
Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979

No comments:

Post a Comment