| My wife and I...haven't had sex in three weeks. Every-single-time I bring up the thought of intimacy in a way that doesn't pressure her she comes up with every excuse possible. She says we can't have sex past 8:30 for some reason, she always has a head ache or is always exhausted, or she just doesn't want to...and whenever I say "hey what's wrong" I'm INSTANTLY pressuring her into having sex. She hasn't gotten ontop of me in two years, whenever we do have sex (which is rarer and rarer) she just lays there and does nothing. As of late I rounded out my weight loss plan, I dropped 30 pounds. She said "I'd blow you if you'd stay under 170 pounds." Well I did and she suddenly came up with another excuse... Now I drew the line and pressed for an answer, she instead blew me off in mid sentence to watch "once upon a time." I mean I even take her out for a date, we come home and right on cue "I'm tired" "oh I have a headache" and here I sit again alone.... So I'm reaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllly thinking of leaving her. It would be a poor financial choice on my behalf but I really don't know if I can live like this. | |||
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The downward spiral (goes deeper!)
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