Reverse Bait and Switch?

We all know that when actions and words don't exactly match, it's a red flag that should be watched. My issue, that I have been thinking about for a while now is sort of a reverse bait and switch. My SO have been together for about nine months now, and knew each other for a month or so before then. We met online and were both actively seeking a relationship, so that put a slightly different dynamic in place from the beginning. We emailed, texted and talked on the phone for hours every day. In fact, we still do. We accomplished in weeks what many couples take months to do. We basically laundry listed what we wanted, expected, would and would not tolerate and so on. We discussed religion, politics, kids future goals, and of course sex. When we began talking about sex, it became clear very quickly that she has a much more formidable past than I do. Part of the discussions were about things like frequency, oral, foreplay, kink, how long sessions last. We were both very open and straight forward. We were pretty much on the same page with everything. She described herself as one and done, but doesn't O through PIV and doesn't really need to O every time. Not really big into acrobatics or being on top much. Three times a week was a good number, bj's to completion but no swallowing, mild hair pulling, ass slapping. Last night she said something in bed that reminded me of this issue again. She said that every time I go down on her, she always remembers the very first time I did, which was on our second date, because that was when she knew she was never going to let me go. Since then, we have been having sex 7-10 times per week, often more. She initiates a significant portion of that, never says no, sometimes O'ing multiple times, wanting to O every time, PIV O's, gets on top, swallows, basically very different from what we initially talked about before we slept together. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining in the least! I am just trying to figure this out. I fully understand and expect that things may slow down a bit in time, perhaps to the levels we initially talked about, but she is far more sexual than she portrayed herself when we were talking. I understand that the normal bait and switch is portraying yourself, both talk and actions, as far more sexual than you are just to hook the person, and then when you have them, shut it down. Everything she said was perfectly fine with me, as are her actions but I guess what I am wondering is why her actions are different than her words?

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