I Just don't get it.........

My wife and I have been married for 24 years. As with most marriages we have had our ups and our downs and most of the downs centered around SEX or should I say that lack there of. I'm in a way kind of "old Fashion", when we were dating we only had sex once and that was within weeks before getting married. Sex in my mind at that time with for after you were married at least that is what I thought. Everything was great for about 6 months and then it disappeared. From then till now it's been harder and harder to get anything related to the word much less the act of actually doing anything. She continues to say "I don't feel like it". "It will get better in time". Now everything else about our marriage has been pretty good with the occasional issue with money but all in all it's been good. I have no interested in getting a divorce, I truely love her and she says the same. So what am I to do, sexless is not getting it, pleasuring myself I am tired of, it's just not the same. She seemingly has no interest at all, I've tried getting her to tell my what I need to do and I get no help, no understanding, no nothing. Suggestions anyone ? :(:mad::confused:

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