How does it feel to be in the sexless position?

I've been married more than once, but mostly married or in long term relationships since I was 19. I'm 41 years old now. From 19-35 I could get sex just about whenever I wanted with my relationship partner. So I had no problem, and I had opportunites around me in life. It wasn't a big deal to me. However, I could see the guys around me who weren't getting it, or appeared to not be getting it. They were usually strained, overly careful, kinda looked like they were starving, you just KNEW they weren't having an abundance or even descent quantity of sex. I didn't look down on them, but now I wonder what came first? The chicken or the egg? Were these guys always sexless, and then starved down by a bait and switch tactic performed by an LD? Were they heavily sexxed, and let their single game drop after becoming a responsible husband and the sex dropped along with it, and some of them came not to care anymore? I don't know. But I've been around 1,000 days without sexual PIV penetration. Had oral a couple of times from my current GF, some hand jobs, a couple of cuddles... I get that strained feeling too. I must look almost the same as these other guys? Anyway, I just wanted to say to an LD spouse, husband or wife... What if your spouse felt like one of the only ones in her space, who wasn't recieving even a "normal" quantity of love and affection? What if it was apparent to everyone around them, that they recieved NONE? And they were looked at in less of a light because of it? Is this what you really want to do to them?

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