He wants, no contact whatsoever...?

Hey, so I've been texting to and talking to this guy for over 2 months now, met him 3 times, he was really into me, saying all these lovely things, taking about the future, how he misses me, i meant alot to him, wd hate it if it ended, wd miss me, he's my baby n i'm his, wants me to be his girl, always be there for me, bby girl, knows he wants to be serious cos wants to settle dwn in couple yrs, marriage eventually, he'd consider me someone for long term, textin gme every single day, at night and during the day. He knew i wd never have sex before marriage n all he did was cuddle, hug n he kissed me alot on the cheek, shoulder, neck, n i did on his cheek, we kissed briefly on the lips but i pulled away, i didn't like it, it was horrible, it was too early too. Anyway, he has a job offer in canada and he decided he's gonna move but that means its over between us, he didn't want to meet to say goodbye, n doesnt want to stay friends, he wants no contact whatsoever, says its easier. I said distance shouldnt be an immediate reason to stop, n i cd evetually move too, but he said i wdnt get on with his cousins. Before he was talking about , 'when u meet my cousins (the ones in england) ' n he had told 4 cousins about me. Why would someone want no contact whatsoever, ever? i don't get it. When i asked , what not evern facebook, nothing? he said, nothing, i'm deleteing ur number. N then i at one point said, tbh physical attraction was always a prob for me, but though i cd get past it, n he said, ur not that pretty, trust me. Despite always telling me i was gorgeous, beautiful and pretty, n wd look t me lik eur so beautiful. My fried thinks he said that as retaliation cos what i said hit a nerve, n he's just bein gchildish. But how cruel! how cd someone be like this. N why wd they want no contact? Also, after he said the pretty thing, i said, 'but looks arnt everyhting to me n i liked u, not gonna be mean for the sake of it.' thanks (at times he said, 'i'm falling for you, n 'you n only you' 'right now u already mean alot to me) Why wd he say all that n then want no contact? He said no contact wd be easier, but i just dont get it at all, n when we were talking he said he was still i touch wiht his 2 ex girlfriends. I kinda get it though, he just cant be bothered to be friends.

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