Default things from Single People

OK... I went on a dating site (not that I want to date..I like to read the desperate profiles) 95% of them say.. I like working out. Bullshet... sure I did a bit of running for the first few months then that stopped, I was working out for the first few months and that stopped too and now I have something to hang my suit on. Most people on here tell people in a break up to "work out"... sure we all think we are gonna do that.. but really.. do we actually stick with it? Are we magically gonna turn in Mr. GQ for men or Jennifer Aniston for the women? No... many of us are chunky, balding, greying and will never look again like we did in our 20's. I find when women try to look twenty while they are in there 40's they just look like cougars.... The default for single people need to be realistic. I'm not gonna go running 10 miles after working all day and then have to look after my kids alone.. I have supper, lunches, baths, homework and maybe a bit of time to clean the living room and do the dishes. I know I won't have 6 pack abs, or arms like Hulk Hogan and anatomy like Ron Jeremy. I have to look at what else I can improve. I can learn to speak clearer, learn to be attentive caring and loving. Understand other people's feeling better, become a better communicator. I will not ... spend 6 hours in the gym a week and look like a douche bag flexing in the mirror or not sit on the couch with a bag of chips feeling like crap once and a while, and not become and over night sensation. Advice needs to be realistic.....and same with what you put out there to find your next date.

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