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Decent thing to do?

Having now seperated with my wife no longer having any desire to even bother with working on our marriage anymore I've recently decided to embrace single life and hence find friends with benefits as I'm done with relationships.

However, I seem to be c-ckblocking myself at present, maybe it's good though, because I'm taking my time and not rushing into things. But... I can't have friends with benefits arrangements if I'm wary about having sex!!!

After some thought, I've isolated the mental block to lingering loyalty that I have for my STBXW. I have no idea whether she's found someone else herself, but nor have we mentioned anyone else thus far. I wonder if it's only fair that I let her know subtly that I'm moving on (and possibly find out if she's moved on too) sexually...

That way, I guess I can ram anyone I please without feeling bad about it! But... how about her feelings? I can just keep it quiet sure - as she doesn't need to know that does she? Or does she? What is the decent thing to do? :scratchhead:




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