So here's the thing...today I went to meet a man I met from plenty of fish. We met at a local diner and each paid our own way.
While I found him physically attractive, I felt uncomfortable with him. He was too aggressive with his physical attention and wasn't picking up that I was uncomfortable with him being so physical.
He had appointments scheduled and so the date had a natural ending, but he tried to invite himself to my house afterward his appointment and when I seemed reluctant he tried to suggest his place. Keep in mind,my first contact with him was yesterday. We exchanged about two messages and then he asked if I was up for getting coffee then. I was in my PJ's at the time, so I offered to meet him today. Even if I had been comfortable with him, I wouldn't have wanted to invite a man that I barely knew into my home and I wouldn't have gone over to his house.
Anyway, he said he would call me during a very awkward hug in which he tried to get more than I wanted to give. I knew he didn't have my phone number and I didn't remind him. Needless to say, I do not want to continue a relationship with him. And I had hoped that he picked up on that and was just saying he'd call to be polite...(although, he obviously wasn't paying attention to my discomfort with his physical proximity.)
Anyway, he just sent a message to me asking me for my phone number. I don't want to give it to him.
What's the proper protocol? Would it be wrong to just ignore it? Or because we met do I owe him more of an explaination?
While I found him physically attractive, I felt uncomfortable with him. He was too aggressive with his physical attention and wasn't picking up that I was uncomfortable with him being so physical.
He had appointments scheduled and so the date had a natural ending, but he tried to invite himself to my house afterward his appointment and when I seemed reluctant he tried to suggest his place. Keep in mind,my first contact with him was yesterday. We exchanged about two messages and then he asked if I was up for getting coffee then. I was in my PJ's at the time, so I offered to meet him today. Even if I had been comfortable with him, I wouldn't have wanted to invite a man that I barely knew into my home and I wouldn't have gone over to his house.
Anyway, he said he would call me during a very awkward hug in which he tried to get more than I wanted to give. I knew he didn't have my phone number and I didn't remind him. Needless to say, I do not want to continue a relationship with him. And I had hoped that he picked up on that and was just saying he'd call to be polite...(although, he obviously wasn't paying attention to my discomfort with his physical proximity.)
Anyway, he just sent a message to me asking me for my phone number. I don't want to give it to him.
What's the proper protocol? Would it be wrong to just ignore it? Or because we met do I owe him more of an explaination?
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