"It's too easy to dismiss the people you're closest to because you expect them to be there no matter what. By doing so, they may very well seek out people who will give them the attention they're not getting from you."
Quoted this from a recent article I read today....and honestly I am so tired of reading so much about spouse emotional needs not being met and that they will likely cheat....is almost now seen as a normal outcome of not meeting their needs, I see references to it almost weekly in so many articles.
why is it that this message is being sent so much, that if you dont provide all the emotional needs of your spouse they will likely cheat and get them met somewhere else?? not everyone does that!!! and how about communication? MC? Divorce??? cheating is NEVER a solution to anything. and why is it that if as a spouse your emotional needs arent being met that maybe you need to relax those expectations a bit? life doesnt work how we always want it to, so how about adapting a little bit to not having your emotional needs met all the time?
Quoted this from a recent article I read today....and honestly I am so tired of reading so much about spouse emotional needs not being met and that they will likely cheat....is almost now seen as a normal outcome of not meeting their needs, I see references to it almost weekly in so many articles.
why is it that this message is being sent so much, that if you dont provide all the emotional needs of your spouse they will likely cheat and get them met somewhere else?? not everyone does that!!! and how about communication? MC? Divorce??? cheating is NEVER a solution to anything. and why is it that if as a spouse your emotional needs arent being met that maybe you need to relax those expectations a bit? life doesnt work how we always want it to, so how about adapting a little bit to not having your emotional needs met all the time?
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