This is a really random thread but when have you ever forgiven someone and did it work out in the long run? This thread has no purpose other than to share your experiences. :)
For me the biggest time I've forgiven is today actually, 2 years ago I stopped talking to one of my friends because she said some unbelievably hurtful things about me and we had a row.
Even when I started messaging her again on Facebook, the previous conversation we had was still there. It angered me again, made me feel like s*** but in the end I just brushed off those feelings and decided to just say 'Hey, I added you again because I think the reason we argued was just silly, it's all in the past now and long gone and buried so...'.
Whether or not it'll work out, well time will tell!
I think even in the most extreme situations we should always forgive; it may take days, it may take weeks, it may end up hurting you more or it may heal your relationship but at least you know you tried.
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