My current girlfriend still has dinner and goes places with her ex husband and his wife. What makes this difficult for me is that I dated her back in high school and she dumped me for the ex husband. They have 3 adult kids together which is the reason they spend lots of time together. Although the marriage did not survive, it appears they get along great for the kids sake. When I get invited places, the ex husband is always around as a constant reminder that I was second choice. She has wanted to get intimate with me but I will not be able to get too emotionally involved with her because I see that this issue with the ex husband would become a problem for me if I get too close to her. I am very close to ending the relationship but I thought I would post here first to get your objective viewpoint. I don't want to appear jealous. I just think it is odd that she wants to hang out with him. The reason why they divorced is because he was unfaithful. I realize that it is important to have harmony for the sake of the boys. Should I be more understanding? I don't know if I can handle doing things with him in the picture.
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