I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Our relationship is great, we met at Uni, knew we liked each other straight away and have recently begun to plan our life post-uni together as we are both in our 3rd year and graduating in the summer.
We both go to a society at Uni which meets every Tuesday. This girl joined in September this year after seeing the stand at the freshers fair.
She has so much in common with my boyfriend. Red hair and brown eyes, which he has admitted in the past is hot to him. Plays piano, my boyfriend also does. They share their love of music. Both interested in running. etc.
At the society meetings I did notice they were getting close and he jokes around with her in a flirty way (briefly touches her any chance he gets) would often stare at her from a distance but I didn't think much of it as he has always reassured me he wouldn't get with anyone else and he would tell me if there were problems in our relationship.
They went on a night out last week (she invited him round to her housemate's birthday party). I was told he drank so much - he said alot about me and our relationship during the drinking games, and during truth or dare was dared to kiss this girl, which he did. Apparently it was hilarious as they were kissing passionately and for longer than they should have. I have also been told that they kissed later on in a club but nobody else saw that apart from the person who told me so I can't be 100% sure on that. Whereas the drinking games/truth or dare I can verify really as there were about 20 other people at the party.
I have no idea what to do - he has told me she is a nice person but has tried to tell me he doesn't find her attractive, which in my opinion is not true as she is stunning. I am feeling so insecure right now, and I am also terrified he will break up with me - I'm not sure what to do now I know all this information :(
Would you leave or stay?
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