My husband and i hace bene together for awhile we hace 2 kids a 7 year old boy and 5 year old girl we hace rules we hace set for our children we ares note big on showing our kids we love them with money instead we shower them with lote of hugs kisses high fives and Great Job and every once in awhile we get them something they really love when they have earned it to show them hard work pays off. we have a soon to be 11 year old step daughter and when i first met her i has a nice short conversation as she got a little older l let her know that i was there to love her and her dad that if she ever needed anything i would be there that with time she woud ese as time went on i notice she would treta her siblings horrible she would hit kick pinch yell treat them like slaves would break things in my home and blame them she started stealing from me money hair accesorios latinos and so on she lied about almost everything that came out of her mouh when i first notice i told my husband we need to do something nos before it gets worse and he said nothing of course it got worse she became rude disrespectful she was even mena to her dad and he acted nothing so i would talo to her ser if she could tell me anything nothing 4 Yeats alter i could note take it come to find out she is just as bar at her moms house and she does nothing either instado she buys her stuff so on top of Bering a bully liar theif rude disrespectful she has become materialistic so when she comes around we do not take her out Bering a parent is not easy and i juste want to help my husband raise a decent young lady the holidays ares comino and he bought her this beautiful nekclace with two hearts and the meaning for him is that it is his and her heart so beautiful bit i fiel she dos note deserve it and he should hold on to it útil there is a chance a true chance within her how can i explain this to him without i fiel lime we go through the same song and dance why he feels the rules apply for our kids and not her i feel they apply for All please any help any sugestiones...
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