Ok so the break up with the X was three month ago. I still miss him but I know I have to move on. So I have, only.....
I put a profile up on my old dating site, where I met the X. Surprisingly, he found me within an hour! Anyway, we have agreed to be friends. Ya know, talk in the event we should bump into each other type thing...or so i thought.
Being angry, is just a waste of time. Truth be told, we talk more now than ever..:scratchhead: maybe cuz there's no pressure?
He now wants to go fishing together. Hoping it's further down the road. Don't wish to see him yet. I need time.
Now this guy at work is talking to me. He's 24 yrs old! Very attractive, he could be Jason Aldeans lil' bro, I swear. Definitely physical attraction But that's it. Our paths into the future are way different. He wants kids, I dont. I like to save money, he spends it on whatever feels good at the moment. He said this, not me. Those are two major things we disagree on. So for me, he wouldn't work for the long haul.
So do I still hang out with him, knowing it could lead to more intimate things, or should I just shut it down now? I've never had a 1 night stand b4 and I don't want to hurt the guy.
Then there's the dating website. A guy wants to meet for coffee. It could be fun, so i said yes....This was decided after hung out with Mr. Aldean. We never did anything but watch movies but I feel like I'm starting to spread myself too thin.
I still consider myself a free agent to hang w/ whomever I want but I just don't want to dig myself into a hole I can't get out of.
Opinions please?
I put a profile up on my old dating site, where I met the X. Surprisingly, he found me within an hour! Anyway, we have agreed to be friends. Ya know, talk in the event we should bump into each other type thing...or so i thought.
Being angry, is just a waste of time. Truth be told, we talk more now than ever..:scratchhead: maybe cuz there's no pressure?
He now wants to go fishing together. Hoping it's further down the road. Don't wish to see him yet. I need time.
Now this guy at work is talking to me. He's 24 yrs old! Very attractive, he could be Jason Aldeans lil' bro, I swear. Definitely physical attraction But that's it. Our paths into the future are way different. He wants kids, I dont. I like to save money, he spends it on whatever feels good at the moment. He said this, not me. Those are two major things we disagree on. So for me, he wouldn't work for the long haul.
So do I still hang out with him, knowing it could lead to more intimate things, or should I just shut it down now? I've never had a 1 night stand b4 and I don't want to hurt the guy.
Then there's the dating website. A guy wants to meet for coffee. It could be fun, so i said yes....This was decided after hung out with Mr. Aldean. We never did anything but watch movies but I feel like I'm starting to spread myself too thin.
I still consider myself a free agent to hang w/ whomever I want but I just don't want to dig myself into a hole I can't get out of.
Opinions please?
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