We have been married for 28 years and have been separated for 1 month. I'm trying to stay busy. Thank goodness for my job. He has moved out and is living in town in an apartment. I'm feeling so marooned and stranded. I am in this house (that I use to love but find so strangulating now). I feel so alone. When I look at my future, which use to have all sorts of plans: traveling, camping, hiking, visiting the kids. all I see now is gray. I know this is so new and raw, but it hurts and I'm finding it very hard to get over this "kick in the stomach" feeling. Have gone to 1 session of counseling and have 2 more free sessions before I must pay. Not sure that's going to work. My husband is a very good man and we did have fun. But he does not communicate. We cannot seem to talk about our relationionship and any physical contact stopped last year. I know he's depressed but refuses to take medication or seek counseling. Have discussed this with his M om and she is so sad about our situation now. Any help on getting over this hump?
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