Just wondering for those who have married an emotionally unavailable husband and then divorced, have you found other men to be any different??
The reason I ask is among my friends we all have the same complaints. We've been with our spouses for over 20 years, we are all in our late 40's to mid 50's, kids have either left home or one is left. husbands are doing nothing but sitting on the computer, watching hours of TV, hunting, reading but there seems to be little to no interaction with the spouse. Most of the wives have adapted to an interest of their husband.
I was with friends this weekend and the lady friend likes to travel. She asked me if I would like to go to a certain destination with her, said she didn't think her husband would go. Sitting right there she asked, he did not bat an eye, did not even look up from his video game and said, "No."
Same couple's trip together another lady friend was saying how she wished her husband would join her to go back home, her dad is elderly, but she said that her husband was going on a motorcycle trip instead and said that she could not get him to do anything he doesn't want to do.
Of my friends I do not see the investment the husbands have in the relationships. They do their thing and my lady friends and I are the ones spending time with each other but I don't think the men even care.
I have thought of leaving many times but if men are all about themselves why dump one just to have it happen all over again?
The reason I ask is among my friends we all have the same complaints. We've been with our spouses for over 20 years, we are all in our late 40's to mid 50's, kids have either left home or one is left. husbands are doing nothing but sitting on the computer, watching hours of TV, hunting, reading but there seems to be little to no interaction with the spouse. Most of the wives have adapted to an interest of their husband.
I was with friends this weekend and the lady friend likes to travel. She asked me if I would like to go to a certain destination with her, said she didn't think her husband would go. Sitting right there she asked, he did not bat an eye, did not even look up from his video game and said, "No."
Same couple's trip together another lady friend was saying how she wished her husband would join her to go back home, her dad is elderly, but she said that her husband was going on a motorcycle trip instead and said that she could not get him to do anything he doesn't want to do.
Of my friends I do not see the investment the husbands have in the relationships. They do their thing and my lady friends and I are the ones spending time with each other but I don't think the men even care.
I have thought of leaving many times but if men are all about themselves why dump one just to have it happen all over again?
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