Hi all, me and this boy (both 18) have got recently close over the last few months, have been on multiple days out, and I have met his family and best friends (he has never called me his girlfriend, although he has stated we are 'going out'. I know he wants us to be a couple as he is already talking about going long distance when I go to Uni, which is a bit far-sighted haha).
He has a job, whereas I am at sixth form with a conditional place at Uni in September. He is really into me, saying he is lucky to have me etc (I'm the first girl he's been interested in, whereas I have had 2 boyfriends before, and I know how badly they affected my grades).
He has a lot of spare time, so he is very flexible about what hours we can meet up. However, I cannot spend too much time with him anymore, especially as I have big exams coming up, and I need to get good grades to get to Uni.
He is a very sweet, genuine guy, but I would need him to wait for me until June if he wanted me to be his girlfriend (June is when my exams are over, and after that I will then have all the free time in the world until the end of September). Obviously, I can't force him to wait all those months before we officially start dating, but I really would like him to. Is there any way I can ask him to somehow wait for me?
tl;dr How can I tell the guy I am dating that I don't want to advance our relationship before my exams?
He has a job, whereas I am at sixth form with a conditional place at Uni in September. He is really into me, saying he is lucky to have me etc (I'm the first girl he's been interested in, whereas I have had 2 boyfriends before, and I know how badly they affected my grades).
He has a lot of spare time, so he is very flexible about what hours we can meet up. However, I cannot spend too much time with him anymore, especially as I have big exams coming up, and I need to get good grades to get to Uni.
He is a very sweet, genuine guy, but I would need him to wait for me until June if he wanted me to be his girlfriend (June is when my exams are over, and after that I will then have all the free time in the world until the end of September). Obviously, I can't force him to wait all those months before we officially start dating, but I really would like him to. Is there any way I can ask him to somehow wait for me?
tl;dr How can I tell the guy I am dating that I don't want to advance our relationship before my exams?
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