Confused

I am new to this site and looking for advice from people who are open and honest. It may sound a little like a rant but I really need to talk to someone about this. I have been married for five year, since my second year in marriage my wife slowed down our sex life tremendously. Always saying she is not in the mood and she don't really like sex much. Our sex life have come to a crawl, in the past we would only have sex on special occasions and few odd times in the year. Now it have slowed so much that special occasions such as valentines or christmas or even my birthday don't merit me getting lucky but then there are the odd days every 3 months or so when she comes around me acting like she don't want to have sex but actually initiates it and at the end says things like "I didn't really want to". This really annoys me because i feel like if she isn't into me, so why not just lets go separate ways. She also does this thing that makes me noticeably angry, w here she waits till we are in public with my friends and sad says things like "I cant wait to reach home to screw your brains out" or " I have plans for you tonight" and all our friends will be like "Wow, you lucky man" only to reach home all excited and she say something like "that was just talk" and go to her room (and yes she made it that we sleep in different rooms). She says its because I snore and keep her up, I know that most times I do keep her up with the snoring and yes sometimes she invites me to come sleep by her but thats just what its for to sleep. She says she could get a puppy to do that. The next part of the problem is that I am a sex addict, like cant control myself and to avoid cheating it has turned into a porn addiction. She confuses me so much that I am totally lost because at times she flirts and talks to me about her with other girls and speaks to me also about us going to an adult resort for a week to explore more about our sexuality and in the same breath she shuts me down of trying to open up my sexual desires to her and tries to keep hers from me. I constantly asked and offered her ways out of the marriage but she persists that she doesn't want that. What you think I should do?

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