It's nearly 3 weeks since my hubby moved out. In January this year I discovered that H has cheated, lied and deceived me. Since then we have been in R till 3 weeks ago. I'm so devastated and upset so I'm likely to be economical with my story. I just wonder if there are any of you guys that come out with some positive feedbacks on separation; does it/can it work? One of the reasons my h has lost patience with me; triggers, not so trusting!! I guess it's difficult to understand why!! We are in a mess financially and of course emotionally of which he hugely contributed to. We have 2 beautiful kids and they are coping well not sure about myself though! I feel lie he's left me to sort out everything including selling of our home and he certainly not keen talking about bills/debts. Last Saturday we had a chat that didn't go very well at all then we were together on Sunday for an activity our son was taking part in and somehow it was fairly positive; better a tmosphere, nicer teach other. I fear H might e suffering from depressions as he never dealt with illness properly around 12 months ago; all the symptoms are there. I have advised/suggested to him to go and see our GP but he won't; doesn't want to be stuck with mediation for the rest of his life! I guess he would rather lose his family/marriage! Yes, he's seeing the kids, financially supporting/contributing but if he's depressed how bad can things get; he doesn't seem to have any energy for anything apart from his job. I feel so desperate, confused, hurt and all of the emotions under the sun!! Any advices, suggestions, tips would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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