My husband of 22 years recently told me he wanted more out of our marriage, and basically gave me the opportunity to tell him I wanted out, wanted someone else. I don't want someone else. I told him I wanted to repair our marriage, asked for counseling, he said no. He said fine, but things need to change. I asked if there was someone else in his life, he said no. Long story short, there is someone. I have cell records that show they are in constant contact. I also found out he was at a local hotel a weekend he told me he had gone out of town. I keep asking, giving him the opportunity to admit his infidelity, but he continues to say they are just friends. I've confronted him with the cell bill, but not the hotel. He also told me he will now go to counseling, never would before. I said I won't go unless you break off the relationship and he is continuing to stick with there is no relationship, just friends. I know that I haven't been the best wife, but I'm not sure I can tolerate this. I also am so confused. when he talks to me, holds me, etc, it feels real. How could he be in love with someone else and make me feel like he still loves me? Is there a chance at salvaging this? Can you trust someone again?
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