So now that I am almost divorced and back on the market I keep getting in trouble with married/involved women! I don't know if it's just me and how I am but this sucks. I am going to get shot or at least my ass kicked one of these days!
So it started with when I divorced my wife in March. I ended up a couple months after hooking up with an ex girlfriend that was kind of still in a relationship with her children's dad. That fizzled out after a couple months and then I went on vacation with my cousin and his wife and two other couples. Well nothing really happened then but we all hit it off and have stayed pretty close.
Fast forward a couple months and I am going to one of the couples weddings in Iowa(I live in Michigan) which is actually where they all live but are all originally from MI. I am staying with my cousin for the wedding, well they have this neighbor that they are all really tight with...anyway she is married and her husband is a linesman and travels 11months of the year. The night of the wedding we all end up drinking a lot and I basically am with her the whole time and we hit it off. I really don't remember a lot but I guess I made quite the impression lol. I also can be maybe a tad flirty when drinking...I also do remember walking her back to her hotel room, walking in with her standing there for a second and telling myself no so I just turn around and leave.
So nothing happened then but the next day my phone is blowing up with FB friend requests from all these new people including her. Well we end up messaging on FB a bunch and I end up giving her my number to text and then we end up on the phone often. Well we probably have now discussed more then we should have, I learn she is very very unhappy in the marriage and she feels her life just wasting away. We both agree that we clicked but I have told her I can't do anything with a married woman. The phone talking and texts slowed after that maybe a couple times per week.
Well now this last weekend they were all in town here for a wedding. Before hand I confront her to see how much everyone else knows before I might say something to get her in trouble and she says nothing, she has told no one anything about her unhappy marriage or me! I am just like wtf ok I guess I'll keep my mouth shut(which I suck at).
So we are all out on the town the night before the wedding and I am able to play it down like I just kind of know her...I do get the vibe my cousins wife might know something is up. Anyway, somehow the next morning I end up with her hotel room key sitting on my kitchen table?! So here comes the wedding which I did not go to. She calls me later to chat and said she left the wedding early and is at her hotel. Well she flat out told me "I should come over I have her hotel room key anyway" but insisted on no one being able to know :(
I told her I couldn't do that and that she should come here because everyone will be here sooner or later, and to me that was the only way I could guarantee nothing would happen. Well she never showed and I haven't talked to her since.
I actually feel bad because we really get along but I turned her down twice now and she is really unhappy and I really like her.....
So it started with when I divorced my wife in March. I ended up a couple months after hooking up with an ex girlfriend that was kind of still in a relationship with her children's dad. That fizzled out after a couple months and then I went on vacation with my cousin and his wife and two other couples. Well nothing really happened then but we all hit it off and have stayed pretty close.
Fast forward a couple months and I am going to one of the couples weddings in Iowa(I live in Michigan) which is actually where they all live but are all originally from MI. I am staying with my cousin for the wedding, well they have this neighbor that they are all really tight with...anyway she is married and her husband is a linesman and travels 11months of the year. The night of the wedding we all end up drinking a lot and I basically am with her the whole time and we hit it off. I really don't remember a lot but I guess I made quite the impression lol. I also can be maybe a tad flirty when drinking...I also do remember walking her back to her hotel room, walking in with her standing there for a second and telling myself no so I just turn around and leave.
So nothing happened then but the next day my phone is blowing up with FB friend requests from all these new people including her. Well we end up messaging on FB a bunch and I end up giving her my number to text and then we end up on the phone often. Well we probably have now discussed more then we should have, I learn she is very very unhappy in the marriage and she feels her life just wasting away. We both agree that we clicked but I have told her I can't do anything with a married woman. The phone talking and texts slowed after that maybe a couple times per week.
Well now this last weekend they were all in town here for a wedding. Before hand I confront her to see how much everyone else knows before I might say something to get her in trouble and she says nothing, she has told no one anything about her unhappy marriage or me! I am just like wtf ok I guess I'll keep my mouth shut(which I suck at).
So we are all out on the town the night before the wedding and I am able to play it down like I just kind of know her...I do get the vibe my cousins wife might know something is up. Anyway, somehow the next morning I end up with her hotel room key sitting on my kitchen table?! So here comes the wedding which I did not go to. She calls me later to chat and said she left the wedding early and is at her hotel. Well she flat out told me "I should come over I have her hotel room key anyway" but insisted on no one being able to know :(
I told her I couldn't do that and that she should come here because everyone will be here sooner or later, and to me that was the only way I could guarantee nothing would happen. Well she never showed and I haven't talked to her since.
I actually feel bad because we really get along but I turned her down twice now and she is really unhappy and I really like her.....
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