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Why is Marriage so Hard? How do We Simplify?

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A question for both the men and women - why if we are in a committed, honest, trusting relationship, is it still so hard? What can i do as a husband to help address some of the challenges to make this a better experience with my wife? and what can she for me?

* We have been together for 5 years and are at middle age, and we both have insecurity issues that neither one is the hot young tight body spring chicken.
* We evolve in our work and personal lives, and are still getting used to each other - and kids - and yet it is still a struggle (should it be?)
* As a man and woman, we each have different sexual peaks and sexual drives. How do we reconcile this?
* Neither one of us is perfect - we have both made mistakes - significant, but not major on the relationship - a text here, a withholding of sex there - a mistrust here and there.

For those of you who have perfected marriage - what are we missing? how can we (i) get past this?

Sorry for the lack of focused topic, but would really appreciate any advice or experience you are willing to share.

Thanks,

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