I've realised that one of the reasons why us guys feel so nervous and uncomfortable around girls, esp hot girls, is because we're not used to being around them. If you have hot female friends, you'll end up being a lot more relaxed and comfortable around them when you're talking/hitting on hot girls you don't know. You also get to see the world from their point of view and become better at socialising with girls in general. I noticed this because i havn't really had any female friends in the past 3 years and i'm just **** at talking to girls. In a party, i'd be able to get along and socialise with most guys no problem, but girls? I'm so much more uncomfortable, awkward and just clueless.
So the solution is simple right? Find female friends, esp hotter one (sorry tsr :(), except that i can't make female friends, because i can't socialise with them. I just don't know how to talk to them. Having the vast majority of my friends being dudes, i realised that i actually have a rather laddish conversation style, which is ironic because i'm really not a lad.
So the solution is simple right? Find female friends, esp hotter one (sorry tsr :(), except that i can't make female friends, because i can't socialise with them. I just don't know how to talk to them. Having the vast majority of my friends being dudes, i realised that i actually have a rather laddish conversation style, which is ironic because i'm really not a lad.
Put the internet to work for you.
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