Confused!!! Marriage with wrong person

Hi, I got married in Nov, 2010 with a person from my work place. Me and my husband worked in the same office, first he proposed me, I denied. After two years of his regular approaches and after seeing his soft behavior, love, compassion, I decided to marry this guy. We both are from different backgrounds, different cultures, different food habits, different lifestyles, but he told me that it hardly matters for him, after marriage, I can do whatever I want, he will never push anything on me as he loves me a lot. Before saying yes, I already confirmed about his culture, habits, and at that moment of time he told me that it hardly matters. He just wanted to marry me, and doesn't care about any culture, lifestyle or anything. I was totally convinced and taken decision that this is the right person for me and I said yes to the marriage. The day I got married and reached at my in laws place, his behavior totally changed. His big brother's wife started degrading me by saying useless things, like in our culture this happens, that happens etc etc.. and my mother in law also started teaching me regarding her house rules, culture, and told me that I have to wear saree as I am a punjabi girl and we always wear suits. But I wore sarees as long as i was there (at in laws place).After engagement, my mil wanted me to do fast (vrat) according to their culture, I denied, at that moment of time , my husband also denied that I don't have to follow any rituals, and he told me that if I don't want to do this fast then no issues to him. But after marriage, suddenly my mil started forcing me to do the same fast, I denied before, at this moment, my husband didn't utter a word, and forcively, I did it. I told my husband that what's going on, I didn't like it as earlier he told me that he didn't care about any culture then why hi s parents or big b wife started teaching me their culture which is totally different, and it's not possible for me to convert completely as we agreed before , but he told me that I don't have to live with his parents, so do whatever they want and when we leave for Delhi, then do whatever you want. I said OK.. When we reach Delhi, his bua's daughters started teaching me their culture, their food habits etc and I didn't like the way they treated me as well as they talked with me, I feel annoyed. In 2011, my husband's big b and his wife came to our place and started rubbish things, like what's in the kitchen, you don't have this, you don't have that. I always share things with my husband and he didn't utter word for me to anyone. This is starting, now as the time passes, anyone can say anything rubbish to me, may be in front of my husband. I am a girl with less words and only wanted to be with gentle people not with people who always wanted to teach rubbish things which i never want to listen. After 15 days of marriage, my husband started blaming on me that I never call anyone in his family whether his bua, his big b wife, my mother in law , mama mami etc.... I was shocked, that this is not the guy I choose as my better half. Now this blame continues after 3 years of marriage. I trie d my level best, I started calling my mother in law once a week, but her complains never end. Whenever she calls my husband, she always complain about me, that I never call her, but whenever she call , she never talk with me just complain.. And whenever my husband told me to call his big b wife, I called, but I really annoyed after talking, I don't know what she wants, she never talk with me gently. she always pushing hard on me. If everybody is pushing me because I am of different culture and always teaches me , then I think I really don't want to call anyone. Now the situation is, my mil called my husband and complain that I never call her, and our fights begin, my husband told me that his mom is right and I am wrong. Before marriage I was always right but now I am always wrong. my mil told my husband that I am not fulfilling my responsibility of daughter in law. I have a 6 months daughter with me, I left my job due to some complications in pregnancy,I was in worst condition that I cannot sit even on bed, my husband and my mom really put hard efforts on me. My mom take me to her place but no one came from my in laws place. Now I started ignoring those people who make me sick. I don't understand my husband's dual nature. Now I am a housewife, taking care of my little angel and my home, but still whenever my mil called , we always have a fight. What should I do, please suggest.

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