How do you let your spouse know that your interested in sex?

I have read on here that many are interested in more sex and I was wondering how you asked your spouse for sex. There seems to be a dance around the issue of wanting it. Some wait for others to make the first move due to fear of rejection but if they dont know your wait for them to ask and they dont ask well your going unsatisfied. Others are too fearful of rejection to even make the approach and if the other spouse is the LD they are probably thinking about everything but sex, = no sex. I also wonder how many LD are willing to have sex if approached but the HD is so fearful of rejection they never approach and again = no sex. One method we have used that works the best for us is to light the sex candle or the I am willing candle. I have to say its exciting to see that candle being lit buy the other spouse or coming to bed and seeing the candle already lit. Other times its a text message during the day at work. The problem with this is that by the time you get home and deal with all the rest that life has to offer sometimes it doesnt happen and then the spouse that got texted about sex is now going to bed feeling slighted. It seems like this sex and marriage thing can get so complicated when it was so simple before you got married.... At least for us.

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