Dealing with "emotional affairs"

I have been with my Husband for 2 1/2 years, shortly after we married I caught him watching porn and masturbating to it. 3 weeks after I caught him doing that I found conversations between him and a few of his female co-workers, he would praise them and tell them how "sexy and beautiful" they were! all the while our new marriage was suffering and falling through the cracks. The only time he wanted to have anything to do with me was to take me out to get a bite to eat and help him with his hobbies of politics! things started getting better for us and then after we moved back to our hometown i caught him looking at other women constantly and shortly after found hidden documents of conversations between him and our mutual friends sisters.. here we are now I thought we were doing great apart from our problems with lack of sex yeah we rarely do it... id say on a good month i get it 3 times ? anywho.. he claims he loves me and is attracted to me but sex is not important to him and yet he still masturbates 2 and 3 times a week to porn and talks to other women??? well today I realized i have had enough.. I just want to say to any woman out there who is going through something similar.. don't wait around until it is too late get out of it while you can and if you wan't it to work hes gotta be willing to give up all the technological crap as well as his hobbies and make time for you full force! My Husbands tears and begging means nothing to me anymore because he turns right around and does it again and and again.. I don't think I feel doubt anymore ugh I just hope I make all the right decisions possible I don't feel I am overreacting about it do you? :mad:

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