Wifes affair

About a month ago I found our my wife was having an affair with one of my best mates. To my shock it had been going on for about 15 months. I have been devastated ever since. She is still here, we are going to counselling. She is not sure what she wants to do. Should she stay or go. I have never cried so much in my life. I am not really sure why she is still here. He ticks all the right boxes and they meetings were always exciting. I am stunned that such a good mate could do that to me. Including turning up to my house and drinking my beer, I helped him do up his kitchen and wire out his new shed. To be betrayed by them both is devastating beyond words. While I know the marriage was not perfect, although many of our friends thought we had the perfect relationship, I did not think it was that bad. She never mentioned or showed that she was not happy. His relationship was not good, and I had advised him to go to counselling... now I know why he did not. I feel like I am the toy mouse on the end of a stick for the cat to play with. Why wont my wife decide what she wants to do. What should I do. How do I cope

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