Does my boyfriend suck?

Hello all, My BF and I have a serious problem and I'm wondering if I should break up with him over it. Together we help run a small sports team in our town. It was something we very much enjoyed doing together and we both found it mutually beneficial and rewarding. He is the coach of the team, I was the director. I was recently relieved of my position by my boyfriend's best friend's wife, who was also a director. I am SO angry about this, and now even angrier because I feel like my boyfriend should be so offended by her treatment of me that he would quit the team as well out of respect and honor towards me. He didn't, and he won't. Instead, he continues coaching, interacts every day with the woman who disrespected me, and refuses to honor my feelings about it in any way. Unfortunately this is not the first circumstance where I have felt like my feelings, emotions, pain, sadness, etc don't matter at all to him. On the flip side, he loves the kids h e coaches and maybe it's selfish of me to expect him to quit. I can't seem to get over my feelings of revenge towards this woman, and I feel like every time my boyfriend shows up to coach the team, SHE wins. I want him to quit the team and make it clear to her that she should have never disrespected me the way she did, but I know it's selfish. I don't know how to feel about this...except very hurt by everyone involved. Thoughts?

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