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first issue during reconciliation

So my H and I have been in R for 3 weeks now. He is showing me everyday his remorse and has been trying his best to improve our relationship.
Last night was our first little test..WS came home in a grumpy mood from work while I was on treadmill. He was acting upset that I was "doing my own thing" and he needed attention. I told him when I completed I would devote my attention to him. It took a lot out if me not to tell him all the things I still needed to do to maintain the household. He contniued his sour mood during dinner and I held back, keeping a smile on my face. After our daughter was in bed, I sat with him and gave him all my attention and told him we could talk about anything he wanted. THere were so many different responses I could have chosen, but I chose to support him in his time of need.
The question I am having is: why is he going through so many emotions when I am the BS? How long will this go on?
On a good note, about an hour later, he overcame his bad mood and thanked me for being understanding and that he can't imagine being anywhere else but with his family.
This R is extremely hard and its only been 3 weeks.




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