he wants too much sex

I am late-twenties, my boyfriend late-thirties. I have been properly together with him for the past 5 weeks, in fact we are practically moved in together, with me spending 5 days of every week of the last 3 weeks at his place, and I am very soon moving in permanently. He seems to be the love of my life, while obviously not perfect, we have already been talking about babies and the future etc, after searching for so long for someone really compatible, I am so happy to have found him and so in love with him. He's like my soulmate and a lot of things I've been looking for in a partner. Now my problem: he has quite a high sex drive and I am the opposite (I partly blame the pill). He's permanently horny, to be frank, would ideally like to have sex every day at least once, whereas my ideal number would be like twice a week now. after a couple of frenzied weeks of 10times in a week altogether I simply don't crave sex so often. He does not force me to have sex, but I feel quite bad that sometimes it's almost like a physical pain for him (maybe overdramatises it), all I want is cuddles and kisses but I know he'd like sex. he does manage to turn me on in such cases (although we mostly have to use lubricants and even then it may not be completely pain free as I'm too tight (as in my heart of hearts I don't want to be having sex)), and then I don't enjoy it to the full, while obviously not suffering, I feel more like doing him a favour and almost like playing along. When we talked about this, he apologised and merely told me he can't help being so horny around me as I'm so sexy, turning him on, besides he loves me like he's loved no other. turns out he only expects this phase to last two years. TWO YEARS? all this was so much easier with my ex (with whom lots of other things didn't work), with him it was every five days and both of us wanted exactly that, we were so in tune on that front. on top of this, when my ex wanted sex and I didn't, he could come really quickly and new boyfriend seems to want sex all the time, yet takes his time coming, with that making the whole thing even more uncomfortable for me again. pls give advice or opinions.

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