| Hi, I know I am in the wrong and I know the amount of support I will get will be minimal, but I am hoping someone may be able to help me with moving on and reconciling with my husband. I have been having an emotional affair with another man for the last few months. It has been texting and occasional phone calls and it has not gone any further than this. Last week I ended it and yesterday I slowly felt like I could function again. I have told my husband of my attraction to another man and was honest with him that nothing had happened. Thankfully my head took over control of my body because part of me did want it to go to go further. We have identified issues in our marriage and we are working on these together. Then out of the blue yesterday the other man accidentally phones me leaving a message (his phone had called me and it was all background noise - so I know it was an accident). I couldn't check my voice messages, so stupidly texted him (I honestly thought something was wrong, but also I was so excited he contacted me - :slap:). So now I am back to square one. I know the right thing to do, and I am doing it. I am committed to my marriage and family. I have initiated no contact again and he has agreed. But now how do I move on from him and how do I re-ignite the feelings he brought out in me with my husband? Whenever I feel the urge to call or text him, I call my husband instead. I know I won't get any sympathy, but I am trying to fix this, so if there is any constructive advice from others with what helped them with reconciling and moving forward it would be appreciated. | |||
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