Just a little background information. My husband and I have been together for 4 years now and have been married for 1 year. He is 28 and I am 25, and we have a 4 year old together. When we first started dating we had sex every single day, sometimes multiple times in a day. Slowly over the years that has slowed down to at best 3 to 4 times a month. This is not for lack of me trying, I am asking him and coming on to him on a regular basis and I always get turned away...every single time no matter what I do. We are very open with each other sexually and have done many different things. Including watching porn together, threesomes, all kinds of sexual positions, oral and everything else. I don't feel like it could be an issue of him not getting what he wants. But every time I ask him or try it's I'm too tired, my back hurts, I have heartburn, My stomach is upset, I just want to finish this show, you always ask at the worst time, you know I can't have sex with out falling asleep after (this is false), we have somewhere to be, and the list goes on and on. The only reason we have sex those few times a month is because he initiated it and I would never turn down a time that he wants sex because 1. I don't know when I am going to get it again and 2. It would be a huge fight with him mad and upset because he knows I want to have sex "all the time". Which isn't necessarily true. I know it is not due to my appearance because he does nothing but brag to his friends and coworkers about me and the apparent sex we have. And when we are having sex he keeps telling me how sexy I am. We both have always been very sexual people and when we actually have sex...full sex which is only like once a month not a quickie where he is the only one getting off which accounts for the other 2 or so times a month it is mind blowing. So what is going wrong here. Why does he always shoot down my advances and why does he hardly ever have sex with me?
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