So I am trolling for some answers from someone
on how do I become someone that SEX Is coming
at me , how do I be someone that is an opening for SEX ?
So I am looking to see who I need to become to attract SEX.
Perhaps that may sound weird however I am thinking that I cant
change my wife however I can change myself ...
I am 44 and my wife is 47. I am looking for some advice and
I have looked before. Me and my wife havent had sex in 3 months
and to be honest the lack of sex or desire from her side is starting
to even turn me off. Whenever I try and communicate about sex
she gets very reactive. She seems very tired and even when she sleeps
and takes naps it doesnt help.
If I ask her and she can she gives me a handjob however many times
when I initiate she wants to do that and she isnt into sex.
Over the last 3 months one month she had no period and one
month she had two of them and then even complained of a dull pain
a few times. She recently went to an acupuncture person however she
said the herbs were not working for her and now has stopped taking
them and yet she didnt even know what they were for . It tool almost a
year for her to go to someone because she always gets sidetracked with
being busy ..
We are both active, work out - I work out 5 days a week and she works
out 4 to 5 days as well . We eat very healthy organic food and have a
5 year old daughter .
Every time I try and bring up sex or ask about what is happening with
her she gets reactive many times which seems like a tired or hormonal
response .. she may say - I dont think we have the same goals in life
or maybe you need to find someone to have sex with you . a week ago
I shared that we could have sex during her period and not use a condom
and she laughed and said we dont even have sex when I am not having
my period and asked her if she ever had sex during one ? she said no
I said I did before and her comment was why dont you have sex with
that person ... she says crazy things .
I told her how I want to have sex and feel connected. One night she said
you can only feel connected to me when we have sex I think. I said no
we eat out dinner every night . have a date night on saturday which is
dinner and hanging out while babysitter is in over and we go home and
go to sleep most of the time ..
I just dont know what to do . I have tried many things, doing more chores
giving her space and yet it doesnt seem to help. The question is who do I need
to be, should I walk around the house with a boner or naked or what >???
This last week I wanted to have sex and I asked for a massage since she
was having her period. I started making out hard and then she said her
boob hurt from me touching it - she said ow.. I said I was sorry and then
she said why did your personality change after she said ouch ...? then she
said she would give me a massage... I said I wanted to put my **** inside
of her and then she got upset and said do you want a massage or not ???
almost like a threat ...
What do I do , any advice - how to exude sex and attract sex , vs me chasing
it and trying so hard for her - any ideas ??
on how do I become someone that SEX Is coming
at me , how do I be someone that is an opening for SEX ?
So I am looking to see who I need to become to attract SEX.
Perhaps that may sound weird however I am thinking that I cant
change my wife however I can change myself ...
I am 44 and my wife is 47. I am looking for some advice and
I have looked before. Me and my wife havent had sex in 3 months
and to be honest the lack of sex or desire from her side is starting
to even turn me off. Whenever I try and communicate about sex
she gets very reactive. She seems very tired and even when she sleeps
and takes naps it doesnt help.
If I ask her and she can she gives me a handjob however many times
when I initiate she wants to do that and she isnt into sex.
Over the last 3 months one month she had no period and one
month she had two of them and then even complained of a dull pain
a few times. She recently went to an acupuncture person however she
said the herbs were not working for her and now has stopped taking
them and yet she didnt even know what they were for . It tool almost a
year for her to go to someone because she always gets sidetracked with
being busy ..
We are both active, work out - I work out 5 days a week and she works
out 4 to 5 days as well . We eat very healthy organic food and have a
5 year old daughter .
Every time I try and bring up sex or ask about what is happening with
her she gets reactive many times which seems like a tired or hormonal
response .. she may say - I dont think we have the same goals in life
or maybe you need to find someone to have sex with you . a week ago
I shared that we could have sex during her period and not use a condom
and she laughed and said we dont even have sex when I am not having
my period and asked her if she ever had sex during one ? she said no
I said I did before and her comment was why dont you have sex with
that person ... she says crazy things .
I told her how I want to have sex and feel connected. One night she said
you can only feel connected to me when we have sex I think. I said no
we eat out dinner every night . have a date night on saturday which is
dinner and hanging out while babysitter is in over and we go home and
go to sleep most of the time ..
I just dont know what to do . I have tried many things, doing more chores
giving her space and yet it doesnt seem to help. The question is who do I need
to be, should I walk around the house with a boner or naked or what >???
This last week I wanted to have sex and I asked for a massage since she
was having her period. I started making out hard and then she said her
boob hurt from me touching it - she said ow.. I said I was sorry and then
she said why did your personality change after she said ouch ...? then she
said she would give me a massage... I said I wanted to put my **** inside
of her and then she got upset and said do you want a massage or not ???
almost like a threat ...
What do I do , any advice - how to exude sex and attract sex , vs me chasing
it and trying so hard for her - any ideas ??
Put the internet to work for you.
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